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Making Time for Yourself When a Spouse Has Dementia

Dealing with a spouse who has been diagnosed with some form of dementia, like Alzheimer’s, is difficult. In the beginning, the couple will likely have recognized some of the earliest signs and symptoms of Alzheimer’s. Memory loss is the most significant thing people focus on, but there can be numerous symptoms that develop.

Alzheimer's Care in Snellville GA: Making Time for Yourself

Alzheimer’s Care in Snellville GA: Making Time for Yourself

What are some of the early signs and symptoms?

Forgetting conversations is one thing. Maybe the couple was sitting in the living room the previous evening having a great conversation, and the next morning one of them started talking as though they never even discussed anything at all. It can be a bit disconcerting, and it may pass.

Another potential symptom is using the wrong word. Sometimes, a person dealing with Alzheimer’s or some other form of dementia may suddenly say a completely wrong word within the context of their conversation. They won’t realize it, and even if it gets pointed out to them, they may be confused, not realizing they said it.

Also, forgetting appointments can be commonplace. Keeping track of dates, things to do, and so on can all become more complicated for somebody dealing with a memory related disease.

For the spouse who is the primary caregiver, it may seem relatively simple to offer reminders, accommodate the same conversation three or four times in one week, and so on, but eventually the disease will affect the brain to the point where a senior is unsafe, at risk of wandering off, getting angry and belligerent, requiring more physical support, and so on.

When this happens, that spouse is going to need a break.

Many family caregivers simply don’t believe they have the opportunity to take time off. The disease isn’t going to rest. It’s not going to get better with time. Yes, there are some prescription medications that can minimize the symptoms or at least control some of them, but it’s only going to get more difficult.

Home care is the best option to consider.

When the spouse needs some time to themselves, to spend with their friends, to get away, to just get a break, hiring home care support is the best option. Through an agency, these caregivers often have a great deal of experience working with other elderly clients, some diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia.

That level of experience can not only help the spousal caregiver learn the strategies and techniques that make a positive difference, but it can give them confidence knowing their husband or wife is in good hands while they make time for themselves.

If you or an aging loved one are considering hiring Alzheimer’s care in Snellville, GA, please contact the caring staff at Home Helpers, call (678) 430-8511.

Valerie VanBooven RN BSN

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